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I read the comment of someone traveling over 8 hours to see me sing at a church and I only did two songs! I know that some things are out of my control. But this continues to haunt me.

Every musician and artist goes through the highs and lows of popularity. But concerts as a way of outreach has been horribly discounted in recent years and with the decline of the music business in the way of hard sales of product due to downloading and theft  has left me in a position of attaching myself to what ever draws the audience.

I have spent countless hours before God, in anticipation of a new vision with regards to what I’m doing. Touring holds no passion for me these days. The road life was so unproductive for me as to leave me nearly corrupted. The cost was enormous! And my losses in the way of community and family have left me with a floundering sense of true purpose.

I’m incredibly slow at processing my dilemma’s. I remain stuck in my own denial. my persception is untrustworthy mostly. I become paranoid about what I believe to be happening. Is it merely my own decline? or is there a decline everywhere, that music is not the force that it once was.

Is it just that older people (like myself) just don’t have time to attend concerts? Unless drinks are served in a comfortable and entertaining atmosphere no one makes the effort.

true that one man will travel 8 hours to hear me sing. but those ten minutes away find some distraction that prevents them from attending.  and so I am relegated to participating in someone else’s agenda.

The information super highway has made it hard to get anyone’s attention for more than a few seconds and the demand for new material is almost oppressive. Headlines with little content continues to be the wave. Give me the readers digest version. I’ll check out “Whatever” for dummies and move on.

Clearly the world has drastically changed and I have not kept up. Typical old person feeling I’m sure. “the world went and got itself in a big damn hurry” says a convict getting out after a 20 year prison sentence. In the movie Shawshank Redemption.

“Either get busy livin or get busy dyin” they add in that story. I’m choosing life myself. but I’m also like the star character in this movie. Tunneling through 200 feet of stone wall with a small rock hammer!

Here’s prayin that we may find what God intends because all else is a waste of time. If it is darkest just before the dawn… then surely the dawn is at hand now more than ever!

Shawshank Redemption is a great movie. Your words, as I read them tonight, caused me to let out a deep sigh. The world has gone and made us all hurry up. It’s difficult to choose when and how to eliminate the essential and not so essential must do’s. My husband is 50 and I’m almost there at 49 but are we so much “older” than the world demands? Does being engaged in life require we fall to the anemic ways of faster is best? John, my husband, sits and plays worship choruses on guitar in the confines of his music room. There are songs he wouldn’t dare play at church. Worship leaders must keep up with what’s out there. Often, when he leads worship, someone will approach him and thank him for playing some oldies. Their gratefulness is expressed secretly. No one should question the new era. But I thought God never changes? So why do we have to? So there’s the dilema–hasten to keep up with forward mobility or slow down to help someone along the way.

Well, time to go watch some TV. John spent the last 3 hours trying to pick songs for worship Sunday at church and he just shut down and came out of his room. “I give up, I can’t pick songs anymore. There’s such a narrow group to pick from. Can’t do Calvary songs. (Calvary Chapel days) And I’ll get in trouble if I pick anthing “old.”

Good observations, Bryan. Thank you.

posted 6 months ago

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Type your message here …B – I think your music is timeless. Your blues and jazz contemporary style doesn’t exist anywhere in Christian music. Don’t ever stop singing. You have thousands and thousands of fans. I’ve been searching for Step by Step and found the CD on several sites. Thank you.

posted 6 months ago

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by Loyal

I’m just a plain ol fan sittin here on a snowed in sunday morning listening to…”with the war of words begun the battle rages on and on, no you won’t yes I will!……B it speaks to me and gives me strength to keep trying….”YES I AM YES I DO AND YES A YES I WILL! You say the battle for the mind has begun and it is still raging, I for what its worth is still lietening and need the worship outlet where the message is actually relative to the life I lead…Thank You, keep on fighting….a brother in christ…

posted 5 months ago

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Brian,

Several years ago at Crossroads Cathedral in Okla. City, I remember visiting with you after a show? performance? gig?… whatever you call it… LOL… but a woman said she hoped you would never change and your reply was I have to change to keep it fresh… well…

If there’s one thing you can count on
If there’s one thing you can know for sure
If there’s one thing you can count on
Things are gonna change, oh yeah
If there’s one thing you can count on
Things are gonna change

Oh, don’t give up,
Well, I’ve seen some hard things
I never thought that I would ever smile again
Holdin’ on when I feel half-hearted
I keep my faith without a way to explain it

I’m confident God will bring the right people into your life to help you through this change…. I’m praying the right internet marketers cross your path that love the Lord, are passionate about your music and understand social media, backlinking, and how to expand your fan base… and more importantly reveal ways for you to become more profitable.

All my best to you and yours,

Mark in Nashville.
drivedoctor (at) yahoo.com

posted 5 months ago

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Big Ooops… nothing like being up at 2:30 am, hoping to encourage your favorite Christian singer and misspelling his name…

Dear Steven Curtis… please forgive me for misspelling your name… LOL!!!… Just kidding Bryan…

I hope to see you in concert soon.

Mark in Nashville

posted 5 months ago

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Bryan:

It breaks my heart to hear (read) your words. I hate the pain and sadness. I just tossed a prayer for you; I have no profound answer. I have no idea why God allows some of these things into our lives, except that I assume they are supposed to sharpen us. I look forward to THAT- NOT! Are these the “sovereign-God” moments?

My wife and I first enjoyed your music when you were touring the “Whistling in the Dark” record, and have enjoyed everything since, even to the point that I sang some of your stuff with them sing-along tracks at church, “Strong Medicine” being one of them(forgive me, though, I have nowhere near the vocal range that you have- hello, falsetto). Such precious messages and wonderful catchy music. You often spoke of your personal struggles through your music.

We drove 1 1/2 hours twice to see you- is that good?

Hey, everyone, this guy opened for Petra! How cool is that?

I will cry with you- after all, “Blessed are the tears that fall, clean the windows of the soul…”

Now, where’s this NeHoSoul stuff- alright , alright, I do have iTunes, after all…

Please, hang in.
Rick

posted 5 months ago

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My Brother.
I encourage you to do what you do, the way you do.
Its that keepin on keepin on stuff.
I think all of us are feeling it. Even in our personal ministries.
I love to go to concerts but not alotta good ones where I live.
I get sickened to death of the “whispering” so called praise and worship.
I know its “style” but…yuck.
I think folks are overwhelmed with the economy..all the political stuff…prayin….”Even so Lord Jesus….come quickly!”
Thinking…how much longer can it go on.

we just gotta “occupy” til He comes. And believing that He will come.
I am hearing lotsa artistschristian and otherwise saying the same thing…its tough out there now…things are changing.
But we serve a God Who does not change.
He is still the Provider and I pray for you and yours everyday…that all your needs AND the desires of your Heart are met in Jesus Name…and let me know when you’re coming back this way…portland or…we WILL get a group together and comeout in force.
luvya tons
Liska

posted 5 months ago

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by Jana

Bryan, I love your music and ministry. Your music is so honest and lets us know we are not the only person having these thoughts or feelings. We can’t be perfect, only Jesus can. You are the best and love your voice. Your music has a word we all need to hear. I used to go to all your concerts in Fort Wayne, IN. I am not in Georgia. Do you have any plans to sing here any time soon. God Bless You and keep up the great work. WE LOVE YOU!!!

posted 3 months ago

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by William

Bryan,

I woke up this morning with your song, “Giving Up Giving Up” on my mind. Not having heard that song in years, I decided to try to find it online (I have the cassette somewhere…).

Anyway, I stumbled into this site. Having read your transparent blog, it reminded me of what I read this morning in my “Professional Executive Director” reading. It’s from Laurie Beth Jones’ book titled Jesus Life Coach. It told the following story (and I quote):

“Roger Ailes became famous as a media consultant not only to the stars, but also to numerous political figures. Perhaps the most famous of his clients was President Ronald Reagan.
Roger was called in to consult with the president in preparation for his debates. In the first presidential debate, Reagan had gone up against his opponent, Walter Mondale, who had appeared more at ease and more comfortable with statistics than the president was. Frankly the staff at the White House was worried.
People were afraid to say it, but everyone knew the truth. If the president appeared too old or out of touch with his constituents, he would lose the election. Thus there was a lot of pressure on both President Reagan and Roger Ailes when the two met.
For the first practice session, Roger merely watched the mock debates and took notes. People who were brought in specifically to be Reagan’s opponents were trying to outfox and outmaneuver him at every turn–firing questions and comments and innuendos in order to prepare the president for any eventuality. They were especially trying to challenge him about facts and statistics since those areas had seemed to be his weaker points in the last debate. Roger could tell that Reagan was getting tired, frustrated, and agitated by the exercises. No matter how many times they brought him around to try to tackle the facts again, Reagan seemed to be flubbing his lines.
Finally Roger told everyone to leave–the staffers, the mock opponents, the sound people, everyone. He sat down with the president and began to reassure him. He said, ‘Mr. President, the people didn’t elect you because of your ability to memorize statistics. They elected you because of who you are. They love your character and your sense of humor and that is what they need to be reminded of. Don’t let anyone get up there and fluster you. Just be yourself, and say what comes naturally.’
The president nodded and smiled, suddenly more at ease with the situation.
When the second debate came around, the president seemed in a much better mood. Although he had certainly heard the doomsayers predict that he would go down in this second round as being too old and out of touch, he seemed unconcerned. In fact, when his opponent dared to bring up the issue of age, Reagan smiled and replied, ‘I have determined not to let the age and the relative inexperience of my opponent become an issue in this campaign.’ Everyone suddenly burst into laughter–the moderator, the reporters, and the audience. Even his opponent couldn’t help stifling a laugh as the wisdom and good humor of the man Ronald Reagan shone forth.
It was a slam dunk for the president. The age issue never really came up again, either in debate or in the election. Whenever it did surface in discussions, the president’s humorous and good-natured one-liner was quoted, reminding people who this man really was. Reagan sailed into a second term…
…Yet God is calling each of us to find, and live, his or her authentic voice. If only we could be who we truly are, this world would be changed in an instant.
You and I are the message. You are God’s thoughts, God’s hopes, God’s dreams, God’s passions, with skin on.
Perhaps you may be like the many of the biblical heroes who tried to convince God that he had the wrong person for the job.
You don’t want me to preach, God–I am a man of unclean lips. You don’t want me to lead the people, God–I stutter. Isaiah. Moses. We love and remember and cherish their names because somehow they came to realize that, despite their fears and shortcomings, they were the message and the voice of God in their situation. It is no different today for you and me.
Jesus knew that He was the message.
And so are you.
Where and how are you trying to be someone else? If someone looked not at the words, but at the theme of your life, what would it be? How would your life change if you realized that you are God’s message in your own world?”

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posted 2 months ago

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by Kenny Metcalf

Well said buddy

posted 1 month ago

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I think I can relate to your frustration, albeit from a different perspective. I am an attorney, one who just opened his own law practice last year in a small, college town. Like a musician who will take, perhaps, less-than-stellar gigs just to pay the bills, I will sometimes take cases that I would otherwise not want to take (such as a nasty divorce or child custody case). But if I have learned anything in the last year, it’s that I have something in Christ to offer someone else who desperately needs it, and that getting me to that person sometimes takes a bit of shaking. If I had complete say over my clientele, I might completely reject the very person that God has ordained for me to help. But because I am more accepting of cases, I suppose that I am more avaliable for God to use. At the end of the day, it’s really not about my career, but what God chooses to do through me.

posted 4 days ago

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Oops… hit submit too soon…… At any rate, I suppose God is using us all in more personal ways–in different ways than we have ever expected. It’s just a sovereign move of God–no matter if you are a lawyer or a musician. We belong to Him, not to ourselves. Like Woody said in Toy Story, “We are here for Andy when he needs us.”

posted 4 days ago

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